The Shade And The Space

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The cool greenery of native bush is a shady lure as the summer continues to heat up in Aotearoa/ New Zealand.

A refuge from the amped up glare amongst the palms and ferns.

There is just something tranquil about disappearing into a grove of trees and being immersed in green light, the sun battling to break through the leafy canopy.

For however long you are in the bush, it is as if the outside world is irrelevant and time stops ticking.

We all need a place to go like that, I think.

 

Not Too Much On Your Plate?

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This can be a thing in restaurants – a tasty morsel, in this case a decadent dessert – on an oversize plate. Odd. This was such an extreme example I had to take a shot.

Which got me to thinking about those times in life which are not exactly brimming over and dripping onto the carpet.

You know, when you are between jobs or relationships, or a time of loss  –  and there is empty, and sometimes uncomfortable, space. We crave that time and space when life is frantic and when we are at odds with the life path we want or hope for, there is more of it than we want.

What to do with unwelcome time and space?

It’s a bit like the expanse of white china above –  a blank canvas so to speak. The time of emptiness may become a place of renewal  and re-creation, something massive in your life. Not something to fill the gap for the sake of it, but an opportunity to change something that’s not working, or head down a new path entirely.

And if that sounds all too much, you could at least sprinkle some f**king fairy dust, like icing sugar ,all over your plate….

 

 

Mind The Gap

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I don’t mind, actually.

No, not the sort of gap pictured – that could end a little messily at the wrong time.

I mean the hiatus; the space in between; the fallow period – call it what you will.

Elsewhere on this site I have explored whether being in that place ,willingly or not, is such a bad thing. See  Hiatus (Never Mind The Gap!) and In Transition  ,for example.

In the not too distant past, I found myself in a major life hiatus. At first I resented being in nowhere land(or at least that was how I saw it to be ). There were none of the usual markers and signifiers that routine and being busy, busy offered.

What I slowly grasped was that there I did not need to prove anything to anyone, did not to need to analyse the situation,  or agonise over what was next .In fact I just had to – be. That was uncomfortable for me but massively liberating in the end.

New things and miracles happened without me chasing them. This blogsite is not named accidentally.

It’s often said that we learn most from adversity or our mistakes,and that may be often true. However I think that the real progress is made in the “after space” of those things .

Self-realisation and change occur in that gap in events where motion stops, and we have time and permission to rest with our being and the universe.

You just can’t squeeze that shit in walking to the shops or in a coffee break between jobs….