The Very Necessary Narrow View

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Window, Tower of London      October 2019

We all want to be seen to be broad minded and to be the one to take the wider perspective.

This shot of a window in the Tower of London (a prison to many unfortunates centuries ago) gives a little lie to that virtue.

For there is a time to take the narrow view.

When it is the only view.

When you are in darkness, or a jail of circumstances beyond your control.

Then the sliver of light and the merest glimpse of the exterior is enough to give hope.

Some small positivity, manageable to a damaged spirit.

The whole luminescent world of possibility is too much to contemplate in that grim time.

If you are there, as I have undoubtedly been, it’s okay to do only what you can and take the narrow view…

To Cross Over

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                                                                     Footbridge, Raglan NZ

 

What does it take to cross over to the place where you want to be?

From misery to happiness.

From loneliness to love.

From failure to success.

What does it take?

Some sort of bridge, some way to cross over that which threatens to engulf you.

And when you find that bridge it will look like this one – not easy, straight, wide or comfortable.

And you, and only you (not even the ones who tell you it can be done) will have to walk it.

On The Straight And Narrow

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I am not generally an advocate for the straight and narrow in everything, because it can be  boring as f**k, but there are those times in life when sticking to that path is a necessity to avoid sinking into, or further down, into the surrounding mire.

The tricky bit ,I suppose,is working out when you are in that place.

If you are,accept the strictures of the boardwalk over the mud and tide for awhile. Safety is, trust me,way better than self-destruction .

And if you have been on that path the whole time, maybe you need to jump off and get a little soaked and dirty…